Showing posts with label personal development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal development. Show all posts
Saturday, 9 September 2017
Friday, 11 November 2016
The Effects Of Negative Emotions On Our Health
If you think emotions aren’t directly correlated with your biological systems, think again!
Humans experience an array of emotions, anything from happiness, to sadness to extreme joy and depression.
Each one of these emotions creates a different feeling within the body.
After all, our body releases different chemicals when we experience various things that make us happy and each chemical works to create a different environment within the body.
For example if your brain releases serotonin, dopamine or oxytocin, you will feel good and happy. Convexly, if your body releases cortisol while you are stressed, you will have an entirely different feeling associated more with the body kicking into survival mode.
What about when we are thinking negative thoughts all the time? Or how about when we are thinking positive thoughts? What about when we are not emotionally charged to neither positive nor negative?
Let’s explore how these affect our body and life.
POSITIVE VS. NEGATIVE
Is there duality in our world?
Sure, you could say there is to a degree, but mostly we spend a lot of time defining and judging what is to be considered as positive and what we consider to be as negative.
The brain is a very powerful tool and as we define what something is or should be, we begin to have that result play out in our world.
Have you ever noticed, for example that someone driving can get cut off and lose their lid, get angry and suddenly they are feeling negative, down and in bad mood?
Whereas someone else can get cut off while driving and simply apply the break slightly and move on with their day as if nothing happened.
In this case, the same experience yet one sees it as negative while the other doesn’t. So are things innately positive and negative? Or do we define things as positive and negative?

CUT THE PERCEPTIONS AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE
After thinking about it for a moment you might realize that there are in fact no positive or negative experiences other than what we define as such.
Therefore our very perception of an experience or situation has the ultimate power as to how we will feel when it’s happening and how our bodies will be affected.
While we can always work to move beyond our definitions of each experience and move into a state of mind/awareness/consciousness where we simply accept each experience for what it is and use it as a learning grounds for us, we may not be there yet and so it’s important to understand how certain emotions can affect our health.
“If someone wishes for good health, one must first ask oneself if he is ready to do away with the reasons for his illness. Only then is it possible to help him.” – Hippocrates
MIND BODY CONNECTION
The connection between your mind and body is very powerful and although it cannot be visually seen, the effects your mind can have on your physical body are profound.
We can have an overall positive mental attitude and deal directly with our internal challenges and in turn create a healthy lifestyle or we can be in negative, have self destructive thoughts and not deal with our internal issues, possibly even cloak those issues with affirmations and positivity without finding the route and in turn we can create an unhealthy lifestyle. Why is this?
Our emotions and experiences are essentially energy and they can be stored in the cellular memory of our bodies.
Have you ever experienced something in your life that left an emotional mark or pain in a certain area of your body? Almost as if you can still feel something that may have happened to you? It is likely because in that area of your body you still hold energy released from that experience that is remaining in that area.
I came across an interesting chart that explores some possible areas that various emotions might affect the body (featured above).
When you have a pain, tightness or injuries in certain areas, it’s often related to something emotionally you are feeling within yourself.
At first glance it may not seem this way because we are usually very out of touch with ourselves and our emotions in this fast paced world, but it’s often the truth.
When I’ve had chronic pains in my back, knees, neck or shoulders, it wasn’t exercise, physio or anything in a physical sense that healed it, it was when I dealt with the emotions behind it.
I know this because I spent the time and money going to physio and even though I wanted and believed I would get better, something wasn’t being addressed still. The more I addressed the unconscious thought pattern and emotions throughout my body, the more thins loosened up and pain went away.
When you get sick or are feeling a lot of tightness and pain, often times our body is asking us to observe yourself and find peace once again within yourself and your environment. It’s all a learning and growing process we don’t have to judge nor fear.
YOU HAVE THE POWER
Davis Suzuki wrote in ‘The Sacred Life’, ‘condensed molecules from breath exhaled from verbal expressions of anger, hatred, and jealousy, contain toxins. Accumulated over 1 hr, these toxins are enough to kill 80 guinea pigs!’
Can you now imagine the harm you are doing to your body when you stay within negative emotions or unprocessed emotional experience throughout the body? Remember, you have all the power in you to get through anything life throws at you. Instead of labeling with perception the concepts of negative and positive as it relates to each experience you have in your life, try to see things from a big picture standpoint.
Ask yourself, how can this help me to see or learn something? Can I use this to shift my perception? Clear some emotion within myself? Realize something within another and accept it?
Whatever it may be, instead of simply reacting, slow things down and observe. You will find you have the tools to process emotions and illness quickly when you see them for what they are and explore why they came up. If you believe you will get sick all the time, and believe you have pain because it’s all out of your control, you will continue to have it all in an uncontrollable manner until you realize the control you have over much of what we attract within the body.

Joe Martino http://simplecapacity.com/2016/04/the-effects-of-negative-emotions-on-our-health/
Joe Martino http://simplecapacity.com/2016/04/the-effects-of-negative-emotions-on-our-health/
Saturday, 22 October 2016
The 10 Proven Habits of the Happiest People In The World
Martin Seligman, the father of positive psychology, theorizes that 60 percent of happiness is determined by our genetics and environment and the remaining 40 percent is how we choose to respond.
In his TED talk he summarized fulfillment and happiness as "consisting of knowing what your highest strengths are and using them to belong to, and in the service of, something larger than you are".
There are dozens of researchers like Seligman who have studied the art and science of happiness. I’ve dived into the most interesting habits of the happiest people in the world and decided to share them with you here.
1. They enjoy the moment
It turns out that taking the time to "smell the roses" truly does enhance happiness in life. When you enjoy the small moments- good or bad- you’re more aware of what’s happening around you.
The happiest people focus on what they can control and it’s possible to choose happiness in the moment, no matter the struggles you may be going through.
2. They have a growth mindset
In the book Mindset, Carol Dweck explains that the most successful and happy people have what she calls a “growth mindset” compared to a “fixed mindset.” A fixed mindset seeks success as affirmation of intelligence or worth; a growth mindset thrives on challenge and sees failure not as evidence of unintelligence or unworthiness but as a catalyst for growth and stretching beyond existing abilities.
After twenty years of research, Dweck concluded that those with a growth mindset had happier relationships, achieved more success in the classroom, and were much more persistent through challenges.
3. They surround themselves with other happy people
As Jim Rohn once said, "You are the average of the five people around you".
Who we surround ourselves with has a huge impact on how we think, feel, and what direction we head in life. It may sound harsh, but cutting out the negative people in your life is necessary if you want to be happier.
You won’t have to confront them personally about this; it could just mean spending less time with them gradually so you can focus on improving yourself.
4. They have a dream
Without a future to look towards, the past is the only thing we can look back on. Whether your dream is to travel the world, start your own business, or learn a new language, having a dream is one of the most important things in remaining optimistic when things get tough.
This concept of having a purpose is especially prevalent in Eastern Asia. In Japan, there’s an actual term called ‘ikigai’, which is translated as “the reason you wake up in the morning.” When some of the happiest and longest-living people were studied, they all had such a reason.
5. They can wait
The bigger the dream you have, the more patience you have to practice.
Happy people are willing to wait for the rewards and focus on the journey, how far they’ve come, and what’s ahead for them.
They understand that the best things in life come to those who are patient and can stick it out for the long run, whether that’s a job promotion, relationship, or a new skill they’re learning.
6. They schedule “me” time into their day
Saying "yes" to everything puts you on the fast track to being miserable.
Giving is important, but if that means taking up "your" time to relax, wind down, and learn new things, then you’ll have nothing to give over time.
You can’t always be agreeable; that’s how people take advantage of you. You have to set clear boundaries.
7. They spend money on experiences- not material things
That car that you just bought diminished in value the moment you drove it off the lot, but experiences are memories that will stay with you for the rest of your life.
The happiest people would rather go on a backpacking trip around Asia instead of buying a flat-screen TV that they’ll seldom use. According to Marc and Angel:
"Experiential purchases tend to make us happier for two key reasons:
1. Great experiences improve over time when we reminisce about them.
2. Experiences are often social events that get us out of our house and interacting with people we care about".
8. They give more than they take
Since happy people live in a world of abundance where there’s always more opportunities to be had, more money to be made, and more love to share, they’re always giving when they can.
From raising money for a charity they care about, offering a dollar to a talented artist playing in the subway, to giving their precious time to mentor a mentee, they’re always giving.
As ironic as it may sound, happy people understand that this will actually make them happier in the end.
9. They embrace discomfort
According to psychologist Peter Kramer, resilience is the opposite of depression. Happy people know how to bounce back from failure. Resilience is a padding for the inevitable hardship human beings are bound to face. As the Japanese proverb goes, "Fall seven times and stand up eight".

Struggle is the evidence of progress, and happy people live by this. Why? The rewards of becoming great at a skill far outweigh the pain they have to endure in the process.
10. They are always learning
Despite his ASL, Stephen Hawking has made prominent scientific discoveries. What is more, he has found the words to tell the world about his findings.
Like Hawking, the happiest people all have one thing in common. They are lifelong learners, constantly reading new books, exploring other cultures, learning new languages, etc. It is an ongoing process because without growth there’s no life.
BY SEAN KIM
Friday, 21 October 2016
Thursday, 20 October 2016
Q&A 5
Q:
What are the five components of physical fitness?
FULL ANSWER
Cardiovascular endurance is associated with the way the heart and lungs work together to provide the body with oxygen. Aerobic exercise, such as swimming or jogging, can help improve a person's cardiovascular endurance.
Muscle strength has to do with the amount of force a muscle can apply in an endeavor. A person can improve muscle strength by engaging in regular strength training exercises, such as weightlifting.
Muscle endurance measures how much continuous action a muscle can perform without exhaustion. Cycling machines, step machines, inclined treadmills, sit-ups and push-ups can test muscle endurance and help improve this component.
Flexibility measures the range of motion a joint has. Stretching the muscles can test how flexible a person is and increase that level.
Body composition is the percentage of fat, bone, water and muscle a person's body contains. The pinch test is performed with a special instrument that measures the fat around a person's waist. Regular exercise and a healthy diet can lessen body fat.
A doctor or personal fitness trainer can help develop a regimen to strengthen a person's physical fitness components.
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Wednesday, 19 October 2016
Q&A 4
Q:
What are the components of health-related fitness?
FULL ANSWER
Cardiovascular exercise is what most physicians and experts mean when they talk about health-related exercise, and studies show that even a small amount of cardiovascular exercise can have significant health benefits. Any exercise that raises the heart rate is considered cardiovascular; "cardio" refers to the heart. About 15 minutes of exercise 3 days a week is enough to see significant health improvements.
While weightlifting and muscle-building exercises do not improve endurance as much as cardiovascular exercise, studies show that they have similar effects on overall health. In addition, these exercises help people maintain a healthy level of muscle mass as they age. Experts recommend using light weights for their health-related benefits.
Stretching can help people avoid injuries, and balance-related exercises can reduce the risk of potentially dangerous falls. These forms of exercise can help people avoid injuries while exercising, but they also help people avoid injuries in their day-to-day lives. A simple stretching routine keeps tendons and ligaments loose, and it also reduces the likelihood of straining or even tearing a muscle.
Tuesday, 18 October 2016
Q&A 3
Q:
Why are sports good for your health?
FULL ANSWER
Individuals who engage in sports and fitness regimes can experience benefits no matter how old they are. Resulting weight loss can reduce a person's risk of chronic diseases, and may boost their self-esteem. Individuals who exercise regularly have a lower risk of heart disease, plus their bones and muscles are stronger.
Other benefits of exercising regularly include better moods and a clearer complexion, WebMD states. People who exercise increase their levels of hormones called endorphins that can deliver euphoric feelings. In addition, serotonin levels rise. As serotonin helps people stay calm, it contributes towards establishing a happier state of mind. Other ways exercise benefits the brain include boosting its oxygen supply, which makes it easier for people to concentrate and think quickly. Finally, individuals who exercise regularly also have stronger immune systems.
People can also reduce their risk of cardiovascular disease by exercising regularly. This happens as a result of lower triglyceride levels, decreased blood pressure and improved physical responses to insulin.
Wednesday, 12 October 2016
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